How to spell EFFEM correctly?

If the intended word is "effeminate", then some possible correct suggestions for the misspelling "effem" are "femme", "feminine" or "effeminate" itself. Other related words to consider are "unmanly", "soft" or "delicate", depending on the intended meaning. Proofreading and using a spellchecker can also prevent such misspellings in the first place.